It’s over (for real!).
There is no longer a guy situation. You see, when things ended where they did several weeks ago, they ended rather strangely. Suddenly, no more phone calls and no more text messages. No more hanging out randomly. What started out as a great friendship with lots of attention for all parties turned into something so awkward and uncomfortable. I was definitely very confused.
No doubt there were motives behind all the hanging out, but not all parties were suspecting. Can men and women become friends and not be romantically involved? Donna and I thought so. Apparently, we’re just naive because the two guys we’d been hanging out with (both older) just made things awkward, strange, and whatever. Sure, feelings were not reciprocated, but it didn’t mean – okay, now you can’t talk to me, and I can’t talk to you because it’s going to be strange. UGH. Just lay it out on the table, so that we’re clear where we stand.
I confronted him tonight. I had to hear him say it. And now that I’ve heard it, I can then learn to accept it. When all is said and done, I truly hope there is a friendship. I need some people around me who can just be open and honest with me and that I can do the same with. I hope I didn’t misjudge in the pursuit of this particular friendship. We shall see.
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