Introspective 1 [in Libra]
As a 4-type, I know I shouldn’t spend so much time looking internally because there’s a chance that I might get really caught up in my head. Still, I think it’s important for me to examine those inner parts and see what I can work on. Last weekend was relatively rough emotionally, and I’d really like not to go back to that. The lamest part is not knowing why and just being a certain way. Frustrating.
Astro.Com is pretty nifty in that they provide a free chart if you just plug in your birth date, time, and place. So I guess I’ll spend the next few entries diving into the bits and pieces of my chart to figure out areas I can/cannot work on. It also doesn’t hurt that half of what’s there tells me how wonderful I am. Hahaha.
Sun in Libra
You are warm and affectionate, and you enjoy being with people. Yet you are not retiring, in fact, you are quite strong willed and often the person in a group who makes things happen.You like beautiful things and dislike anything ugly. Your love of beauty does not apply just to yourself. You prefer attractive homes and furnishings, pleasant scenery, and even art and music, in which your tastes may be unusually well developed.
Very often when you have to make a decision, you have great difficulty making up your mind. This is because you see both sides very clearly, and it is hard to choose between them. Your ability to see both sides makes you a very good peacemaker when other people are having an argument, for you can make them see both views also.
I am definitely warm and affectionate with the individuals in my life who get beyond that initial barrier. I value the relationships that I get myself into, both friendships and romantic ones [read further below], so I think I subconsciously have a very reserved personality until I get to know them and can open up. I wouldn’t say that I am the person in the group to make things happen, but sometimes that is the case. I don’t like the sense of responsibility if the group is not having a good time, and my laziness often comes into play. So I’m not often the person in the group making things happen… if I can help it.
A true Libra is all about aesthetics and beauty. There is nothing wrong with enjoying beauty and surrounding oneself in beauty. Of course, I think I also find beauty where others may not see it, so it’s really subjective anyway. There are very few things that I find ugly and dislike, except maybe in a one’s personality…
Very true in terms of the decision-making process. It’s long and arduous. Yet I often find myself being spontaneous because I get tired of my own inability in decision-making. I guess I save the weighing out of both sides of a decision for the major ones, like career/school/relationships, rather than what I’m going to do one weekend versus the next.
Mercury in Libra
You make up your mind very carefully, for you don’t like to jump to conclusions. You prefer to spend as much time as possible looking at each choice and weighing every point of view.This can be very useful, but sometimes you take so long that other people get impatient. Every choice looks so good that you find it difficult to choose. Whenever two points of view conflict, you prefer to compromise and combine the two, rather than reject one of them. You are moderate in everything you do and won’t ever go to extremes.
Yeah, yeah, I know. I want the best of everything. Why can’t I have it all? That’s why I can spend forever researching something and then when it comes to going through the process, I’ve researched the heck out of it so much that I’m out of questions and concerns.
As I mentioned earlier, even I get sick of my indecisiveness, so for the decisions affecting the fun factor, I’m all about spontaneity.
Jupiter in Libra
You will do best in life if you can keep a perfect balance between extremes. Don’t do anything to excess, and examine both sides of every issue before making a decision.Beauty is very important to you as an indication of order in the universe. You will always enjoy elegance, the more spectacular the better. At a very early age you will learn to see beauty in every possible situation.
Your relationships with others will be very important to your inner spiritual growth. You will discover more about yourself through the people you attract and your relationships with them than through any other means.
With your highly developed sense of justice, you do not like to see anyone get the short end of the stick.
Moderation is the key. Making thoughtful decisions is also important. Being fair. Surrounding myself in company that I admire. That’s me – I get it.
Saturn in Libra
This placement indicates that you need plenty of time to make decisions and that you always want to know everything about the subject before making up your mind.You may be somewhat reserved in relations with others, but once you commit yourself, you will stay with that person – friend or lover – for a long time. You are conscious of rules and duty toward your friends, and you are not likely to break an agreement that you have made with someone. You take relationships so seriously that you would never make an agreement lightly.
You are very concerned that everyone has what they deserve, and your sense of justice is outraged when someone gets away with something unfairly or takes advantage of someone else.
Yup, noted above. All signs point to how much of a Libra I really am. Every planet is pointing in the same direction?
Pluto in Libra
This placement lasts from 1971 to 1984. For those who are now adults, this period represents the greatest breakdown in modern history in the relationship of marriage. Many couples live together without getting married, and those that marry often do not stay married. Because of the general instability of their parents’ marriages, the children of this era will have a much more fluid but unstable view of relationships and mutual commitments between people. They may be very reluctant to make binding agreements because of their childhood experience of marriage.
I’d like to think that I am hopeful and optimistic, but it might be true. When I think of marriage, I don’t see it as something for me… I mean, there were times when S and I were together that I even played with the idea in my head, but this was much farther along in the relationship, and I think the key for me is to even get to that level of trust with someone again.
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