Dec 022008
He dropped the L-word, and I didn’t say it back. I thought it. I just didn’t respond the way a NORMAL person would. Instead, I said, “No, you don’t.”
What’s wrong with me?
It wasn’t like I didn’t know he was going to say it. He’d been hinting at it for awhile, but mentioned that he thought it’d be scary so quickly in to say it, even though he felt it. It’s only been two months.
When you haven’t been in a relationship in awhile, to hear it and to say it… it just feels different. I don’t think it’s sunk in yet.
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3 Responses to “The L-Word”
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Better to say it when you’re completely ready. There is no right way to do anything anymore.
he’s a lesbian? If not, then ditto Keane
Give yourself time until you feel 100% comfortable and ready to say it back. I was in the same position not long ago, and though it didn’t take much longer to say it back, I didn’t want to say it until I was certain and confident with my feelings.
And honestly, despite it only being 2 months, when you feel it, you just feel it. You just know.
:)