Saturn in the Third House
You try to think everything through very carefully. Not one to shoot off your mouth, you plan your speech quite carefully and work out your ideas in detail until they are complete.

When you are learning something new, the teaching has to be structured very carefully to make it understandable. It is not that you are at all slow witted, but ideas have to be orderly for you to understand them.

When you are older, this trait will be very useful in business, but it can also cause trouble, unless you learn to be more flexible in your thinking. Often the best ideas and innovations are very loose and hazy at first, developing a firm structure later on.

In general, you are likely to be very conservative in your thinking, or at least to hold on all your life to ideas and beliefs acquired in childhood. You may also be more serious than most people of your age, at least in your point of view.

It’s a little weird how despite my being very random, I would need to learn in a very structured way. I guess it just has to make sense for it to sink in.

Mercury Conjunct Saturn
You are slow and careful in your thinking, because you want to know all the facts before making a decision, and even then you take your time. You are conservative, preferring to deal with familiar ideas that you have tested carefully in the past. Before you adopt a new idea you test it against your experience, partly because you are unusually anxious to avoid mistakes.

Unfortunately, your seriousness can make you tend toward depression and loneliness. You may feel that you are alone when you are not, and that no one likes you, although it is not true. Try to learn to relax and have fun and to do things merely for the fun of it. Eventually you will learn that living only for what is “important” does not make life rewarding.

Yes, I do get those feelings of being alone and not liked. I know it’s not true, but sometimes you cannot help feeling that way. Of course, these days I’m surrounding myself in a lot of fun things, so it’s all good. I think the problem is also thinking that there is more to life than x. The helplessness comes when x does not seem attainable.

Jupiter Conjunct Saturn
Throughout your life you will make plans and try to organize your affairs with care and discipline. You do not want to go too far too fast, and you want to have a structure that will regulate your life and keep it moving forward in the best possible manner. When you take up a task, you follow it through systematically and thoroughly.

Problems arise when something or someone stops you or gets in the way of your objectives. You do not immediately fight back. Instead, you try to go on as before, but you get increasingly restless and irritable. Eventually you cannot stand it anymore, and you try to get away from the restriction.

I wonder what this is saying about how I am in relationships. I try to adapt to whatever situation, but eventually it eats away at me so much that I’ll speak up. Right?

Saturn Conjunct Pluto
This aspect signifies that you can endure very difficult times, if you have to, and that you have an unusual degree of tenacity.

There may be a scarcity of some element or experience in your life. If this is the case, you will have to work very hard in an organized and disciplined way to make up for it.

Some persons with this aspect respond to the changes that must come in life with fierce resistance. You will have to cultivate the attitude of letting nature take its course, instead of building up structures to prevent change. But if you allow changes to take place in your life, your inner fortitude will be more than enough to help you through any difficult times.

I welcome change, and it never seems as if life is too difficult. Sure, I lack the motivation at times, but I know that those conditions are temporary.

Venus Sextile Saturn
You may not have a great many friends, but the ones you do have will be reliable and long-lasting. You are willing to give up some excitement in your relationships for the sake of having friends whom you can count upon. Sometimes, in fact, you are so serious that you find it hard to let go and have a good time.

You are not as outwardly affectionate as others, but you are reliable and steady in your feelings. When you are older, you will probably have only a few love relationships, but those few will be enduring and dependable. Here again you will choose people you can trust, who will always be there when you need them. And you will be just as loyal to your partner.

Very true when it comes to friendships. I value them, and even though I might not show my affection on a regular basis [trying to], it’s there. Actually, sometimes I am afraid that I am letting the excitement of a new relationship carry me away from my friends. I can only hope that they speak up and let me know when I’ve gone too far away. I want to be as dependable to them as they are to me.

Saturn Sextile Ascendant
This aspect suggests that early in life you will develop a more serious temperament than most young people and that you will learn to handle responsibility sooner than most.

You may not have a lot of friends, but the ones you do have will be as reliable and loyal to you as you are to them.

You may not feel very comfortable in a group, preferring to deal with people on a one-to-one basis, so that you and the other person can have each other’s complete attention.

Your hopes for life are practical, for you see no point in trying to live up to impossibly high standards that inevitably mean failure. So you set realistic goals that you know you can attain.

Realistic goals. Yes. One-to-one interactions. Yes.

Pluto in the Third House
When you become interested in something, you try to get as deeply involved as possible. You want to understand its workings at a very profound level and from every point of view.

Those who disagree with you will find it very hard to change your mind because you analyze ideas so thoroughly before arriving at an opinion. You are a born investigator.

You are quite good at getting others to agree with you, as long as you do not try to force them. But if you state your point of view without trying to convince anyone, others will agree with you quite readily.

Useful information to know! DONE.

Sun in the Third House
Your mind is active, quick and quite curious. You are fond of talking and asking questions, although you sometimes speak when you have nothing to say. The more you can see and experience, the happier you are.

Your curiosity and your quick mind will help you in school, but you will have to learn to discipline yourself.

When you are older, communications may be an important part of your career.

You like to match wits with others, as in arguments, both friendly or unfriendly, and in word games or puzzle solving.

That sounds so much like me, except I’m not one for arguments. I love talking and asking questions when I am with people that I am comfortable with, not so much among strangers. I do love to experience as much as I can. It does make me happy.

Sun Conjunct Pluto
You are more likely to go to extremes than most people because you don’t like to do anything halfway. You want every experience to be complete and intense.

You are strong willed and like to get your own way, so you may find it difficult to make compromises with others in order to get along. But that is precisely what you must learn to do; otherwise you will be alone and cut off from people who won’t want to associate with you.

You have a strong desire to be a leader, which you can do quite well, as long as you keep other people’s needs in mind along with your own. You are particularly good at leading others in carrying out an important task. You like to take on ambitious projects that test your abilities.

If only every experience could be intense… I’d always have something to write or talk about. It’s true that I must learn to compromise with others. Making acquaintances comes easily for me. Making friends does not. I tend to disassociate with people after awhile, so that they can’t be first in not associating with me.

Sometimes I am not as good of a leader as I would like to be. Must work on that.

Sun Conjunct Jupiter
You are likely to be generous and to enjoy doing things for people. In fact, the more you do, the better you feel about yourself. But you tend to have a very high opinion of yourself anyway, which can present problems, for you may become arrogant and conceited if you aren’t careful. Probably you are a good person, but you do not have to prove it constantly to others.

Try to find out what you really are and what you aren’t; in this way the favorable side of this aspect will come out strongly.

You also want to be concerned only with important matters, so you strive to learn as much about the world as possible. You are broad-minded and tolerant of unfamiliar or offbeat ways of doing things.

Your optimistic, positive attitude affects both you and those around you by making everyone more willing to make the extra effort that makes the difference.

Yeah, you better recognize! Just kidding – hah! This bit is so true though. Doing good makes me feel good about myself. I’ll try not to be conceited. ;) The “broad-minded and tolerant” part is definitely the 4w5 in the Enneagram typing! I’m a little offbeat and love all things bizarre.

Sun Conjunct Mercury
You have a good mind, and you enjoy talking with people. A good conversation means more to you than many other things, but you may have one problem. This aspect indicates that you like to take the active role in any discussion; that is, you are a better talker than a listener. To a certain extent you can’t help this, but if you are conscious of it, you can prevent it from becoming a difficult problem.

Your mind may or may not be fast, but it is working constantly. You have a great need to express your opinions, and you can’t stand it when people don’t take your ideas seriously.

Sometimes this aspect means that you have a lot of ability to work with your hands. Certainly such activities as building things or working with gadgets are good for you as a way to release nervous energy that would otherwise build up.

A good conversation means a lot, and I think over time, I’ve realized that I don’t have to be talking all the time. I also love to listen. Although sometimes, I see where I get overly excited about something and can’t shut up.

Sun Square Moon
This aspect is often a sign of inner emotional conflict, which is not all bad, however. You have the capacity to challenge yourself from within, to question and examine yourself. Thus, as you go through life and meet various challenges, you will be used to the idea of making changes. In fact in a real sense you will never stand still, but must constantly evolve and grow.

You attract partners or lovers who symbolize the side of your personality that you are less aware of. As a result the people you attract may seem to not accept you as you are. The real problem is your lack of self-acceptance, however. And this is the lesson you will face throughout life – to accept yourself.

Self-acceptance is key, and I’m finally learning it.

Sun Sextile Neptune
You are very sensitive to others’ feelings, and you understand aspects of people that even they cannot express.

But this sensitivity can be a problem at times. You may be easily hurt by people’s remarks, even when no hurt is intended. You may pretend to be patient and pleasant even when you are quite angry about a situation that you feel can’t be changed. You must learn to be more forthright about your own feelings, for you have as much right as anyone to be yourself.

You are also an idealist, who would very much like to see a more beautiful and perfect world. Learn to see the beautiful side of reality, as well as the harsher facts.

Yup, I can be pretty passive aggressive, but I’m working through it. Being able to communicate has been important. I do tend to read more into what other people say than I should, or I try to communicate by hiding what I really want in something else… Gotta be forthright.

I have one more of these to write about.

Mars in the First House
You are very energetic and self-assertive, and you never retreat from a conflict. In fact, you may even look for a conflict where there is none. Be careful of this tendency, because people will probably dislike you for it.

If you are placed in a position of leadership, which will happen, you will lead very energetically.

You are quite impulsive and extremely restless. However, if you have to work very hard on something that requires a great deal of physical energy, you enjoy it.

Learn to take the time to understand other people’s points of view. You tend to see only your own and to become angry when someone challenges your beliefs.

This is a little odd, considering that I’m a Libra. There must be a part of me that likes conflict or at least the provocation of conflict. Why would I do that? Perhaps things are working out too well, and I need to balance it out by rocking the boat a little bit? I don’t know.

Mars Square Uranus
The lesson you must learn is to act more cautiously with better planning. You tend to go off half-cocked and to act rashly and without thinking.You feel that you have to be yourself, and there is nothing wrong with that. But if you always react negatively to pressures from others, you will be as much at their mercy as if you always did what they wanted you to do.

You have a great need for excitement and are quickly bored by activities that become routine. You will fight when you have to, and even sometimes just for the love of it. You don’t have to be what others want you to be; there is plenty of room for rebels in this society.

Will I fight when I have to?! I’ve always been afraid that I would not. But I guess there’s a part of me that does speak up when things are not right at work. Perhaps this is related to that. I do get bored quickly and love all that is non-routine. It keeps life exciting. I’m lucky to be surrounded by friends who feel the same way about life, taking advantage of every moment.

Mars Trine Neptune
You may be a bit shy and reluctant to commit yourself or even assert yourself, but at heart you are an idealist who wants to do what is best for the world. Especially as you get older, you may not want anything for yourself. You may decide that personal advancement is a very unworthy motive.

Within reason, it is perfectly all right for a person to want to get ahead. Your self-denial is due at least in part to a lack of energy, a feeling that you wouldn’t get ahead even if you tried.

Your sympathy is always aroused by helping people who seem helpless or animals in trouble. While it is fine to be so sympathetic, you should always make sure that your efforts will really be helpful.

Got it. I will try not to be too helpful because in the end, it may not be helpful. I tend not to want to change the people around me, but rather hope that they see or feel influenced to make the necessary changes in their lives. Commitment is difficult, but if it fits into that idealistic mold, then I’m all about it.

Sun Sextile Mars
You have a great deal of physical energy as well as a vigorous mind. Everything that you do, you do positively and assertively without any great effort.

You have a strong sense of fairness and justice, and you will stand up for what you believe. If a friend is unjustly attacked, you will defend him. In a way, you regard your friends as being part of you, so that an attack on them is an attack on you, to which you react accordingly. For this reason you are a good team worker and player, although you can work by yourself if need be.

You have good health and need to be active. Try to engage in some physical activity as often as possible.

I need to be more active! I’ve been slacking off in that particular department. I guess I’d better take up jogging or actually finish going to the gym… I feel healthier when I’m out and about, taking in the fresh air. Friends are important, especially the close ones I’ve made in the last year or so. I’m amazed that I’ve lasted so long without them, and I’m wondering if it’s because I finally am comfortable with myself enough to share that with others and to let people close.

Mars Sextile Pluto
You have a great deal of energy, but you express it in subtle ways, through endurance, persistence and stubbornness. You may not always move quickly, but once you start, it is very hard to stop you or change your direction. You have a great need to be in control of your life and to set your own course. Gradually you will decide on your life objectives, and you will begin to learn and do whatever is necessary to achieve them.

Your determined attitude has many positive results. If you are convinced that a project is worth doing, you will do it completely. You get into every activity so deeply that sometimes you seem to be compulsive.

Yes, it’s a matter of finding something worthy of putting my entire self into. But I think I tend to have a “good feeling” about a lot of things, so I’m a little hesitant to even listen to myself.

Moon in the Twelfth House
You are rather unwilling to talk about your feelings with others, because you feel that they won’t understand you or won’t think well of you. Often you feel that no one should see the real you, but that is not true.

You have a great need for emotional security, but you often feel you won’t get it. But even though it is difficult for you to trust people on an emotional level, you do like to help others. You may pretend that you are not really generous and helpful, but in fact you are.

Often this position means that you like to fantasize and daydream.

I do find it difficult to speak out about my feelings, but I am working on that. I think that I am able to open up to a few individuals, rather than to every single person out there.

Sun Square Moon
This aspect is often a sign of inner emotional conflict, which is not all bad, however. You have the capacity to challenge yourself from within, to question and examine yourself. Thus, as you go through life and meet various challenges, you will be used to the idea of making changes. In fact in a real sense you will never stand still, but must constantly evolve and grow.

You attract partners or lovers who symbolize the side of your personality that you are less aware of. As a result the people you attract may seem to not accept you as you are. The real problem is your lack of self-acceptance, however. And this is the lesson you will face throughout life – to accept yourself.

Got it. Must accept self. Can I accept that I am a constantly evolving person? I can’t just accept the one idea of me. I have to improve and accept those other incarnations. It means that I am constantly trying to grow and evolve. I don’t want to stand still or remain stagnant as a person.

Moon Square Pluto
This aspect means that your emotions are often so intense that you seem to be at their mercy. When you are with people you like a lot, you easily become jealous and you may try to control those you love for fear of losing them. Of course, that is the fastest way to lose them, so you should try to trust the people you love and let them be.

You will go through several critical times when you very much need understanding and support from your family and friends. These emotional crises may seem to pull you apart, but they are stages in your inner growth that will help you become better, wiser and more mature.

Trust is difficult, but something that can be worked on. If I am dating RV, I will have to work extra hard on this one. He’s a big flirt.

Moon Square Jupiter
You are a very positive and cheerful person who likes others and is generally well liked.

But you must learn to control yourself somewhat, for you tend to overdo whatever you get involved in, even to the point of physical exhaustion.

Also you will have to learn to be less extravagant about spending money. You are likely to buy things on the spur of the moment, then not care about them very much afterward. In everything you do, you get involved totally or not at all. You see no reason to do anything halfway. You really enjoy good times, but you must learn self-control.

Getting involved full-on, rather than half-assing it, seems to be my thing. Passion is important, but I can understand that I need self-control. I do buy a lot of things that I do not pay attention to very quickly! Yikes. Self-control, it is!

Moon Square Mercury
Your emotions and your thinking influence each other so strongly that it is difficult for you to separate them. In an argument with someone, you often make little sense, because you are arguing totally from feelings, not logic.

In general your habits will take shape early in life and will have an unusually strong effect on you. So it is very important that you form good habits.

When you get upset, try to cool off and calm down before making any decisions. An impulsive decision made in anger will usually work against you. Try to move slowly and decide what to do only when you have thought about the problem and realized how important it really is.

It says here that I argue on feelings, rather than logic, but I think I am getting better at using logic or at least stating the facts, rather than relying strictly on feelings. I do make some decisions impulsively when annoyed or frustrated, so I have to stop and think about that before making a rash move.

Moon Trine Uranus
You need a great deal of freedom, and you insist on your right to do things in your own way. Probably you will be attracted most strongly to people who are quite unusual. You are not actively rebellious yourself, and others may even think you are quite conventional, but inside you are very much an individual.

Even though you may move often in your life, you will soon feel at home wherever you are.

This aspect gives you the ability to tolerate and respect offbeat people and unusual situations, even when you aren’t personally attracted to them. You will work hard to achieve the sense that you are a unique person, so you are willing to respect other people’s uniqueness.

The section matches the qualities of a 4 Enneagram Type. I am an individual! And it is very true that I can feel at home or at least adapt to my surroundings rather quickly. I love offbeat people and unusual situations.

Venus in Sagittarius
You try to be very fair and just with all of your friends.

You are usually very friendly and quite outgoing. You don’t hide your feelings for others, for you are open about your emotions. People will probably like this in you, and you should have many friends. However, you do not like possessive people or those who use friendship to tie you down.

You are fond of nature and the outdoors and you like natural themes in art.

I definitely do try to be fair. I tend not to take sides, or I can see both sides, and therefore do not clearly choose one over the other.

No comment on the friendly and outgoing or openness of emotions, as sometimes I find that I am neither, and I don’t even understand my own emotions. I’m guessing that this is just a particular aspect that pops up now and again when the stars are aligned just right.

Neptune in Sagittarius
This placement should produce a generation of extreme idealists. Even with older people, this energy has brought about a religious revival unparalleled in this century. As is characteristic of both Neptune and Sagittarius, most of these religions are sects from other countries such as India, and their teachings are quite foreign to Western tradition. However, there is also a strong Christian revival, especially among the fundamentalist and Pentecostal sects. The children of this time will continue that trend.

I’m not quite sure I understand this one.

Uranus in Scorpio
This generation of children may exhibit rather difficult moods and, according to adult standards, seem to act compulsively. It is rather difficult to get them to talk about their feelings, which they can’t easily express in words. However, as they get older they will want to make sweeping changes in the world around them. As a generation they aren’t likely to do things halfway, and the changes they work for will be extremely important. When they are older they may develop new techniques of therapy and healing for both mind and body. They encounter human needs at a very intimate and feeling level and try very hard to implement whatever measures seem necessary.

This describes me perfectly. Compulsive behavior – check. Difficult moods – check. Okay, only sometimes. Difficulty in talking about feelings – definitely. And yes, I want to change the world…

Moon in Cancer
Because Cancer is the sign most closely connected with the Moon, you can be very strong and secure emotionally.

Being close to your mother is especially important, and you need a lot of love and affection from her as well as from others in your family. When you’re older, you’ll be very good at giving the same kind of support to others and taking care of people in need.

Feelings are more important to you than logical thinking, which seems cold or boring.

You are easily hurt by criticism. It’s not that you are weak or fragile, but that you are unusually sensitive to other people’s feelings.

I wish I was as strong and secure emotionally as this little bit implies. And I am definitely not as close to my mother as I would want to be. The mom and I have an interesting relationship. I guess it’s considered a close one compared to so many others, but it could be so different. You know, like those mother-daughter relationships portrayed in movies…

Feelings are important, but knowing how my personality is, I tend to seek out the logical to balance it. I’m surprised that even having the moon in Cancer would put me in a position of placing feelings over logic. S, who is a Cancer, was always the more logical one.

Criticism does hurt, and I wonder if sometimes I am actually overly sensitive to others.

Continuing with my introspective posts, today I’ll take a look at my signs in Leo. These are all from the free chart I got from plugging my birth date, time, and place at Astro.com.

Leo Rising
You like to be the center of attention, to appear strong, confident and dominant, even if something is bothering you.

You like to be the leader, and you can be a good one as long as you remember that leadership is a responsibility as well as power and privilege.

You can be stubborn, especially if your pride is involved. You are idealistic, and people have to prove to you that they have integrity.

You like to have rich and elegant things that you can show off to others. But remember that just because something impresses people, it is not necessarily good. You need to learn the difference.

Others may or may not see you as beautiful or handsome, but as you grow up you will develop a regal bearing that will make others feel that you are dependable. Many people will like you, and most will also respect you.

I think that these characteristics tie into the fact that I am an older sibling. I tend to be bossy. I like to have things my way. I like to appear in control, even if something is bothering me. I don’t actually like to be the center of attention, so on that front, the Leo side doesn’t come out as much. However, I do wish to be accepted and liked, so there’s that.

The elegance and beauty bit tie into being a Libra. I suppose I can’t help admiring and adoring the beautiful.

I do think that most of my friends see me as dependable. I try to be.

Mars in Leo
You have a great deal of pride, and you enjoy doing things on your own initiative. An appeal to your sense of fairness brings out the best in you, and you will do anything to maintain these qualities.

At times you may act arrogant and domineering toward others. You can’t always be first, but you have such a need to be a leader that it may be difficult for you to accept anyone else in this role.

You demand that others let you be yourself so you can run your life as you want.

You probably have considerable self-confidence and even courage, but you are not especially reckless. At best you have a good understanding of yourself, of your limitations as well as your strengths. In fact, you may feel uncomfortable with your emotions and weaknesses.

Not as confident as I’d like to be. Hopefully I don’t act domineering and arrogant, but again, as I mentioned above, it might be the older sibling in me that brings those characteristics out.

As a 4-type, I know I shouldn’t spend so much time looking internally because there’s a chance that I might get really caught up in my head. Still, I think it’s important for me to examine those inner parts and see what I can work on. Last weekend was relatively rough emotionally, and I’d really like not to go back to that. The lamest part is not knowing why and just being a certain way. Frustrating.

Astro.Com is pretty nifty in that they provide a free chart if you just plug in your birth date, time, and place. So I guess I’ll spend the next few entries diving into the bits and pieces of my chart to figure out areas I can/cannot work on. It also doesn’t hurt that half of what’s there tells me how wonderful I am. Hahaha.

Sun in Libra
You are warm and affectionate, and you enjoy being with people. Yet you are not retiring, in fact, you are quite strong willed and often the person in a group who makes things happen.

You like beautiful things and dislike anything ugly. Your love of beauty does not apply just to yourself. You prefer attractive homes and furnishings, pleasant scenery, and even art and music, in which your tastes may be unusually well developed.

Very often when you have to make a decision, you have great difficulty making up your mind. This is because you see both sides very clearly, and it is hard to choose between them. Your ability to see both sides makes you a very good peacemaker when other people are having an argument, for you can make them see both views also.

I am definitely warm and affectionate with the individuals in my life who get beyond that initial barrier. I value the relationships that I get myself into, both friendships and romantic ones [read further below], so I think I subconsciously have a very reserved personality until I get to know them and can open up. I wouldn’t say that I am the person in the group to make things happen, but sometimes that is the case. I don’t like the sense of responsibility if the group is not having a good time, and my laziness often comes into play. So I’m not often the person in the group making things happen… if I can help it.

A true Libra is all about aesthetics and beauty. There is nothing wrong with enjoying beauty and surrounding oneself in beauty. Of course, I think I also find beauty where others may not see it, so it’s really subjective anyway. There are very few things that I find ugly and dislike, except maybe in a one’s personality…

Very true in terms of the decision-making process. It’s long and arduous. Yet I often find myself being spontaneous because I get tired of my own inability in decision-making. I guess I save the weighing out of both sides of a decision for the major ones, like career/school/relationships, rather than what I’m going to do one weekend versus the next.

Mercury in Libra
You make up your mind very carefully, for you don’t like to jump to conclusions. You prefer to spend as much time as possible looking at each choice and weighing every point of view.

This can be very useful, but sometimes you take so long that other people get impatient. Every choice looks so good that you find it difficult to choose. Whenever two points of view conflict, you prefer to compromise and combine the two, rather than reject one of them. You are moderate in everything you do and won’t ever go to extremes.

Yeah, yeah, I know. I want the best of everything. Why can’t I have it all? That’s why I can spend forever researching something and then when it comes to going through the process, I’ve researched the heck out of it so much that I’m out of questions and concerns.

As I mentioned earlier, even I get sick of my indecisiveness, so for the decisions affecting the fun factor, I’m all about spontaneity.

Jupiter in Libra
You will do best in life if you can keep a perfect balance between extremes. Don’t do anything to excess, and examine both sides of every issue before making a decision.

Beauty is very important to you as an indication of order in the universe. You will always enjoy elegance, the more spectacular the better. At a very early age you will learn to see beauty in every possible situation.

Your relationships with others will be very important to your inner spiritual growth. You will discover more about yourself through the people you attract and your relationships with them than through any other means.

With your highly developed sense of justice, you do not like to see anyone get the short end of the stick.

Moderation is the key. Making thoughtful decisions is also important. Being fair. Surrounding myself in company that I admire. That’s me – I get it.

Saturn in Libra
This placement indicates that you need plenty of time to make decisions and that you always want to know everything about the subject before making up your mind.

You may be somewhat reserved in relations with others, but once you commit yourself, you will stay with that person – friend or lover – for a long time. You are conscious of rules and duty toward your friends, and you are not likely to break an agreement that you have made with someone. You take relationships so seriously that you would never make an agreement lightly.

You are very concerned that everyone has what they deserve, and your sense of justice is outraged when someone gets away with something unfairly or takes advantage of someone else.

Yup, noted above. All signs point to how much of a Libra I really am. Every planet is pointing in the same direction?

Pluto in Libra
This placement lasts from 1971 to 1984. For those who are now adults, this period represents the greatest breakdown in modern history in the relationship of marriage. Many couples live together without getting married, and those that marry often do not stay married. Because of the general instability of their parents’ marriages, the children of this era will have a much more fluid but unstable view of relationships and mutual commitments between people. They may be very reluctant to make binding agreements because of their childhood experience of marriage.

I’d like to think that I am hopeful and optimistic, but it might be true. When I think of marriage, I don’t see it as something for me… I mean, there were times when S and I were together that I even played with the idea in my head, but this was much farther along in the relationship, and I think the key for me is to even get to that level of trust with someone again.